The only right way to live, is first to be aware what makes us happy, and just works toward that if you need to work towards it.
If we measure the reasons to our decisions and behavior is ultimately driven to feel good and to avoid pain, both instaneous acts and future preceived good and pain avoidance, then a strong drive is just a measure on the strength of those feelings, then one should strive to be a 'fun haver' or even a 'fun maximalist.'